Monday, June 17, 2013

Sanders/Pure Charity!

What?? No new family this week?  We'll leave the Sanders on the blog, just in case you missed giving!! Thanks for being so generous!:) We'll have another family very soon....
Have a great week, friends!!

Friday, June 14, 2013

Thanks, Dad!

The Sanders have raised $462 this week!! They've had donations given through Pure Charity, in the mail...all sorts of ways! They are thankful for every dollar! Keep giving through the weekend, friends!
It's Father's Day weekend!
What are your traditions for the Dads in your life? A favorite meal...power tools...tickets to a game? Whatever it is, enjoy!

-Tonya

Wednesday, June 12, 2013

Hot Wednesday!

Hi there! I hope you're having a good week! Summer has officially arrived in the South and it is HOT!
The Sanders are at $117 on their thermometer but $217 is their total so far! Keep giving, friends! It matters.
Go to Sonic or hop in a pool today! Have a great week!

Monday, June 10, 2013

Community

I have never been more proud to be a part of any community than I am now. The adoption community has rallied around one of our own. The sweet Hammond family lost their new son, John Thomas less than a day after arriving home from China. They were a part of my personal adoption support group and it touched me deeply. I was stalking their blog. I was praying daily for them. I was cheering them over the finish line to home and medical care. I was devastated when the news reached me of this unimaginable loss. So many people were immediately asking how to help and if there was a fund to help with the new costs. Friends and family have set up a fund to help them with the unexpected costs of the funeral for sweet John Thomas with Give Forward. Please, visit the link and help this dear family during this time. 

Any funds collected above what they will need for the funeral costs will go to a fund for other parents adopting a baby with a heart condition. You can read back through their story on their blog at:

Sunday, June 9, 2013

New Family! Sanders Family on Pure Charity!

Thank you for embracing Pure Charity and donating to our families! You're my BFFs.

Let me introduce you to the Sanders family! {Click HERE to read their blog!} Richard and Stacey Sanders are adopting Mason from China.  They are hoping to travel this month!! His adoption process is being expedited because he needs heart surgery.  Can you help them out?  You can donate and watch a super cute video right over there under their picture -- I love watching the thermometer climb during the week!
The Sanders have adopted before (2 boys last year!) and have a large family that is ready for Mason to come home! I love big families--don't you? They just seem like a lot of fun.
This is a picture of little Mason learning that he has a family:) I do believe I see a former G1S1Asia mama (Randi Lanz) in the background! They sent a photo album and letter for him to learn about their family.  Isn't he the cutest little guy?

Okay, go donate to the Sanders'  Pure Charity account  and let's have another great week! 

Wednesday, June 5, 2013

Special Needs Focus: Albinism

Before you read the interview, head over and check out the giveaway that our family this week has. Is this not the cutest doll in the world? Go check it out https://wewaitinhope.wordpress.com/2013/06/04/baby-be-blessed-doll-giveaway/

FINISHED --Hope

The longer I am back the more I feel like life is finding it's new normal. I am thrilled to get back into the special needs interviews and focus on some of these specific needs. This week I'm going to focus on Albinism. My good friend Emmy is the mom that I interviewed! Please remember that we are not medical professionals. The women interviewed are simply moms sharing their experience with us. Always, always talk things over with a medical professional before making a decision!

Albinism is a term to used to describe a condition in which a persons body does not make the correct amount of melanin (which is what colors the skin). That's the most basic definition.

Special Needs Interview
 Albinism
     

What country did you adopt from? China Waiting Children
What was the age of your child at the time of the adoption? She turned 27 months on Gotcha      Day
What made you consider this special need? I was born with a special need myself and when I learned of the possibility of programs placing children with special needs I never looked back. Albinism in particular wasn’t on my yes list but my maybe list and when I had the file of our sweet little with albinism, I researched it extensively and learned that it was actually a need that was quite easy!
 What does daily life look like for you now? It’s basically the same as it was before we brought her home just with more kiddos! We’ve had a few more medical appointments in the beginning, but really in the long run, it will only be two more a year than usual! Some extra sunblock, sunhats and glasses! That’s it.
 How has it impacted your life? Hugely of course because we brought a new child into our home. We have been so blessed by the gift of a third child and she is fitting in unbelievably! I would say in no way has her need impacted our family. We couldn’t be happier with the results from the doctors so far.
 Are there variations of the condition and what are you dealing with in your child? I am not a doctor, but have picked up on lots of info to share.

Albinism has three major (minor in my opinion) areas of concern…

1st: Vision is probably the most variable and unknown ahead time. Within the vision part of this need, there are many factors that can affect vision. I am not a doctor, so please do your own research as medicine frequently changes and advances.
            -Nystagmus – This is where the eyes dart back and forth. Our daughter has this and it’s pretty minor unless she is stressed and tired. I have seen some people with albinism learn to control this on their own; there is also a surgery that can help people with more severe cases of it.

            -Astigmatism – This is hard to explain, but has to do with where the eye takes the light coming in and focuses it. Our daughters are severe and this will not usually go away with age like it can for non-albinism people. It can be mostly corrected with glasses.

            -Strambismus – Misplacement of eye (lazy eye) our daughter doesn’t have this, but it is my understanding that there is treatment for this condition.

-Photophobia – Light Sensitivity.  Our daughter has this and her is pretty severe. Sunglasses, Sunhats and low lighting help. This doesn’t go away either and I believe all people with albinism suffer from some form of this

-Low vision – While somewhat correctable, glasses do not usually correct their vision enough to help them see clear. Though I was recently told that their vision could improve over time somewhat.
I know all of that sounded scary, but really she is just a regular kid that is squinty in bright light that I have to remember to grab sunglasses for when we go outside. We are in the process of getting her prescription glasses filled and will get the double dipped transition lenses and then we won’t even have to remember sunglasses! Without the glasses she needs to get close to things to see them… other than that she is just like any other child! I don’t even notice she’s different from my typical seeing kiddos. I find that I parent her not much different than my seeing kids. She can still read my facial expressions and hear tone in my voice…. Oh and her eyes are NOT red. They are blue with a hint of violet in certain lighting. Dare I say she has the eye color most people dream of having! Photographing her can be tough because of squinting and flashes are a huge no-no for light sensitive kiddo’s!

2nd is skin
            I read a bunch on this and saw many differences in opinions on many different topics. I’ve seen both parental differences and medical staff differences…. This is what we do. Not saying it’s right for every person with this condition but works for us.   Sunblock is applied when going outside. We do not avoid the outdoors during sunlight hours, but properly equip her eyes and skin to do whatever it is we want to do. We do try to buy clothing with sun protection (summer especially.) From what I can tell about the cancer concern is they are more likely to get cancer if they get burned, so be sure they don’t! Hats are important in the summer to protect their scalp… and sunscreen even in the hair/scalp.. Apply often.. More than usual but don’t go over the top and buy 90SPF.. Their fair skin can be sensitive and going overboard with chemicals is not the answer. It’s proven that anything over 30SPF isn’t more effective than 30 and doesn’t last longer. All it does is put more chemicals on their skin than needed IMO.

3rd is Syndromes… When I did the research for Daisy I was told because of her heart condition, she was more likely to have a syndrome than the average person with albinism. The major two syndromes associated with albinism are rare! I’ll provide some links for researching more on this need.

 How does insurance coverage work for this condition and the adoption? As long as you add them within the allotted time (check with your state) I don’t believe it’s an issue. I would make sure your medical insurance covers vision.. other than that, I can't think of anything.
What expenses should a family be aware of upfront? Adoption costs and glasses. Also, sunblock can be very costly, especially if you decide on using more natural sunblocks because of sensitive skin.
What state are you in and does it offer additional coverage to this particular                                   special need? I live in Minnesota, which is nice because the U of M has an albinism clinic. Also there are support groups and IEP services for Low Vision in our area. Plus a school for the blind about 30 minutes south of us if her vision was worse.
What else would you like others to know about this condition? This condition is life long (meaning there is no cure) but it’s really the special need that other parents of children with albinism consider the non special need need!

Here are some helpful links:
Links:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RrqdFKs2Hzw (video showing how a typical person with albinism sees.)
http://www.albinism.org/ (A great organization supporting people and parents of people with albinism)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Vz3Io9AdvYA (A look at adopting a child with albinism)
https://www.ammado.com/nonprofit/110807/videos/3905 (A look at adopting a child with albinism)


http://www.adoptspecialneeds.org/success-stories/kramer-kids-albanism/ (Interview of a family with LWB that adopted a child with albinism)


Waiting Kids with Albinism
email me at: hookedonfaith05@gmail.com for contacts for more information about these specific children

Felix DOB: 2009
Look at that grin!!!
2009, Jan 8th, Felix


Shane DOB: 2000

 Reid DOB: 2001

Cory DOB: 2002

Jason DOB: 2002
(I couldn't resist the second picture of Jason!)

Andy DOB: 2003

Brent DOB: 2004


 Timmy DOB: 2004



Sunday, June 2, 2013

First Pure Charity Family! Meet the Shepard Fam!

Hey, hey, hey! I'm so excited to welcome our first Pure Charity family to our blog.  Daniel and Jenna Shepard are adopting a sweet little girl from China.  The Shepards have a son and daughter and are excited to welcome another little girl into their family! Go meet them and leave them a dollar or 2 as  congratulations!
You will need to create a Pure Charity account, and it will take you about 2 minutes. "Back this fundraiser" means donate to it! You are awesome and we're looking forward to a great week for the Shepards.





This is such a sweet family....don't you love their video?
Thanks for giving, sharing this page and praying for this family--they are super grateful!
And yeh, don't you love seeing our family on the side of the blog? So cool! I would say "so rad", but that would give away my age....
Have a great week, friends!