Wednesday, March 27, 2013

Because Every Child Matters

Two things you should do today.....

Go donate to the Lanz family and help them bring their daughters home AND

check out Sevenly's shirt and cause.  Shirts purchased this week help girls in India at risk of being abandoned or killed. 






Gendercide is defined as the systematic elimination of a gender, typically tied to cultural reasons, such as a social preference for males, financial strain, or superstition. In India, approximately 5 million female fetuses are aborted each year. Additionally, 1.5 million baby girls die before their 1st birthday, many of them are killed at birth, thrown into rivers, strangled or left in garbage dumps.

Sevenly's cause this week is Invisible Girl Project.  Buy a shirt. Make a difference.

Monday, March 25, 2013

Say Hi To The Lanz Family!


Give1Save1 is busy this week! Take a look at our MAP to check out all of our families.

Haven't given to the Lanz family yet? Go ahead and do it! They have a matching grant, so let's get to doubling! Your $1 turns into $2, just like that.   You can give on their BLOG.   Go ahead so you don't forget. And come back next week, too! 

Adopting? Email me at tonyagarrick5 at gmail.com and I'll send you an app to be on our blog!  LIKE us on Facebook and spread the love.

Have a great week, folks!

                                         

Sunday, March 24, 2013

Meet This Week's Featured Family, The Lanz Family!



This week's family is totally fun! Come meet the Lanz crew. Y'all know I love BIG families and the Lanz's are just that!!! They have eight kids and six grandkids. Now the Lanz's are growing again: by TWO! The Lanz family are adopting two girls from China, ages 6 and 7. Both girls are in the same orphanage and have their physical therapy together (they have cerebral palsy) and know they are getting adopted together - YAY! You can follow along at their journey right here on their BLOG!

You can see some of the Lanz crew running around in their awesome video; I love how playful and fun they all are together. This might go down as one of the BEST Give1 Save1 videos of all time.




Their oldest daughter and son in law wrote the parody to the tune and filmed and edited it too; they did a great job. This family looks like a lot of fun! It goes kind of fast, so here are the words:


We Will Find You in Shenzhen


Could it be that you're our daughter?

A member of our family?

Could it be you have a sis,
Waiting there with you like this
Two girls hoping endlessly?



We can find a room in our home

An empty place within our hearts

Just in need of being filled
We can even say we're thrilled
To see that this is where it starts



We'll fly higher

See it transpire

Soon you will see when
Little Abigail and Jen
We will find you in Shenzhen



We've been tangled up in red tape

Filing forms a mile high

We've been pulling out our hair
Ink is getting everywhere
While we're dotting all the i's



The whole family is longing

Sisters, brothers, Grandma, too

Nieces, nephews, want to play
Just can't wait until the day
When we board that plane with you



Flying higher

It will transpire

Listen here again
Little Abigail and Jen
We will find you in Shenzhen



We'll fly higher

See it transpire

Soon you will see when
Our dear Abigail and Jen
We will find you in Shenzhen



Girls you know it's true

We are coming fast for you

And we'll find you in Shenzhen



We want you to know

Just how much we love you so

We will find you in Shenzhen



Na na na na na na....

Abigail and Jen

Find you in Shenzhen



Okay, so hop on over to the LANZ FAMILY BLOG while that catchy little song is still in your head, click on the donate button, and help them bring those two precious girls home!

Oh, and there's a BONUS too! They are also selling these cool bracelets from the Apparent Project in Haiti. The majority of orphans in Haiti are relinquished because their families just can't afford to keep them. The Apparent Project trains them as Artisans to make jewelry out of cereal boxes. It is making a huge difference for the people in their program.

About the Aritsan who made the bracelet: Marise lost the father of her two children in the earthquake. She is currently living in a tent and is trying to save money to get into a house and pay for her oldest to go to school someday.


For everyone who gives to the Lanz Adoption Fund between now and Friday evening will be entered in a drawing for this beautiful Apparent Project bracelet! And if you just think they're super-cool and need a few of them for yourself or to give to friends, you can purchase them from the Lanz family right HERE!  For each bracelet they sell, they keep $4 for their adoption and $4 goes back to the artisan who made it. That little bracelet is making a big difference. So go give to this awesome family and be entered to win this awesome bracelet (and maybe even grab a couple more too!)

Have a great week, everybody and remember to "Do good. Be rich in good deeds. Be generous and be willing to share." - 1 Timothy 6:18

~ Paula
"I will not leave you as orphans; I will come to you."  - John 14:18



Thursday, March 21, 2013

We Like You, Too!

Did you know we have a Facebook page?  We do!! Go like us....we already like you!

Can you visit us weekly and donate $1 to the family we're featuring? A little truly goes a long way. Our families REALLY appreciate it and you can know that you are part of their journey! Spread the word about what Give1Save1Asia (and Africa, US, Caribbean and Europe) is all about!



Have a great weekend, folks! Play in the snow or enjoy the spring weather.....whatever applies to you!

Sunday, March 17, 2013

Orphan Hosting


We don't have a featured family this week, but I really wanted to tell you about something super-awesome and close to my heart. Orphan hosting.

Last summer, my friend Andrea (Babe of My Heart) hosted a really fantastic kiddo, "Princess T" as they called her, from Ukraine. Princess T came over with an orphan hosting program called New Horizons for Children. It's sort of like international fostering, for a lack of a better term.

"Christian families can invite an orphaned child from Latvia or Ukraine (and now China too!) to stay in your home for 4-5 weeks during the summer or winter programs. Being included as a member of a family and receiving unconditional love gives an orphan HOPE for a better future. Learning they do have a Father, the same Father in heaven who loves us all, gives an orphan the promise they are never alone." (NHFC website)

Many of these children have never had a positive family experience. They come here, learn about American culture, have access to dental and vision care, experience healthy and loving family relationships, and get immersed in the English language. The amount of English that a child can learn in a 4-5 week hosting program is the equivalent of what they could typically learn in 4-5 semesters in school in their home country. This gives the children pride in themselves and helps boost their self-esteem in a big way!

Our family will be hosting a child through New Horizons for Children this summer AND we are adopting him! Not all families adopt their host children, but after connecting with Viktors' two previous  host moms, we knew that Viktors was our son and we wanted to bring him home forever.

Viktors the day he arrived for his winter hosting trip, December 2012

Viktors 3 weeks into his winter hosting trip with his host mom, January 2013


These pictures speak volumes to what an orphan hosting program can do in just a short amount of time. It really is remarkable how his smile is lit up and his eyes just sparkle in the second picture. It is amazing what love, family, time, and nourishment can do in the life of a child who's been forgotten by the world, but loved unconditionally by a few.

To learn more about New Horizons for Children, go check out their website HERE.

If you'd like to follow our journey, please hop on over to our blog, Super Sloans. We're having a big 'ol birthday party for Viktors this week because he's turning 12 in just a few days. Make sure to check it out here: A Birthday Party for Viktors. You can sponsor a puzzle piece for Viktors' birthday and help bring him home forever! When you do, you'll be entered to win an Amazon gift card. 

New Horizons is still looking for host families for this summer. Can you bring an orphan into your home this summer? You might not be able to load the kids up and head to a foreign country for 5 weeks, but maybe you can bring the mission trip to you!!! Prayerfully consider what God might be asking you to do for the least of these this summer. 
'Truly I tell you, whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of mine, you did for me.' - Matthew 25:40


~ Paula

Wednesday, March 13, 2013

The Connected Child and Empowered to Connect




Most adoptive parents today have read The Connected Child as part of their required reading or as a suggestion from a friend. It's a fantastic book. I have read the book cover to cover three times now, but I refer to it constantly. I truly believe that every adoptive parent should read this book.

Back in September, the hubby and I headed to Nashville for a weekend to an Empowered to Connect conference. I have to say, I wish we had gone before Zoe came home had gone before having children. Our first two sons are biological children, but this stuff is just good parenting.

The event is put on by Show Hope and was led by Dr. Karyn Purvis together with Michael and Amy Monroe. The weekend was packed with a tremendous amount of insight into brain development and brain chemistry of children who have suffered trauma early in life: including in utero. I walked away with a better understanding of our kiddos, but also with tools in my tool-belt for being the best parent that I can be and for helping them heal and grow.

Watch this promo about the Empowered to Connect Conference.


If you have the opportunity to go to an Empowered to Connect Conference, I urge you to go! It's worth the time it takes to go and learn for two days. I am so glad Michael and I were able to attend together. I think it's helped us both be on the same page as parents. 

Since coming back from the Empowered to Connect Conference, we've made use of the available resources that they've made available online. Maybe you didn't know you can get Created to Connect:  A Christian's Guide to The Connected Child for free online. You can also order printed copies if you wanted to do a group study. 

There is also a tremendous amount of resources available on their website. They have articles, audio, and video clips on just about any topic you could possibly want to learn about. 

You might be wondering if you're going to parent your biological children differently than your adopted children. I like what Dr. Purvis has to say about that.




I hope that you can walk away today feeling encouraged in your parenting - with all your children! I hope you will make use of the resources that are so readily available to you as you are on this journey of Trust Based Parenting. 

If you haven't had a chance to check out this week's awesome family, THE SHARPS, then go do it now! They are as cute as can be and have you been to their BLOG!?!?!? They have quite the adorable line-up of kiddos (and a long line-up too! WOW!) They are leaving in just a couple days to bring home TWO little ones from China. Say a prayer for the Sharp family and help them bring their precious ones home with your donation. No amount is too small. 

Hope your having a great week! 

~Paula



Tuesday, March 12, 2013

Thalassemia

I have seen the face of God and I did not find it underneath a steeple, or in the middle of a worship fest, or in the faces of church leaders.
 No, I have seen the face of God in the eyes of the orphans who rise each morning, completely alone in the world and raise their hands to the only Father they have ever known.
 I have felt the ache of my Savior’s heart as I have watched children lose their chance for a family. I have seen the devastation that we have left in our own paths of selfishness and I have knelt before my Savior in humbled repentance. He has opened my eyes.

"Once our eyes are opened, we can't pretend we don't know what to do. God, who weighs our hearts and keeps our souls, knows what we know, and holds us responsible to act." Prov. 24:12

We cannot pretend any longer, Friends. Our eyes are open. We are responsible to act, to do, to go. We are responsible.

Special Need of the Week!

Thalassemia

I’m going to put in a shameless plug here. My son has thalassemia b major. These kids do not have much time to live in China. They do not have the ability to get the medical treatment that they need there.  
Please, prayerfully consider these children. Feel free to contact me for more information
on thalassemia.

www.choosingthalassemia.blogspot.com is an excellent resource

Special Needs Interview

Completed by Rebecca


What country did you adopt from?
  CHINA

What was the age of your child at the time of the adoption?
 1. 9 1/2 MONTHS AND 2. 4 1/2 YEARS

What made you consider this special need?
 I FILLED OUT A SPECIAL NEEDS MEDICAL CHECKLIST AFTER I HAD CONSULTED WITH MY PEDIATRICIAN REGARDING ALL OF THE LISTED SPECIAL NEEDS.  MY PEDIATRICIAN TOLD ME THAT THALASSEMIA WAS SIMPLY A FORM OF ANEMIA AND NOT A SEVERE SPECIAL NEED.  WHEN I RECEIVED MY FIRST DAUGHTER'S REFERRAL, I BEGAN RESEARCHING MORE AND DISCOVERED THAT THALASSEMIA CAN BE A SEVERE SPECIAL NEED.  MY FIRST DAUGHTER'S MEDICAL FILES WERE QUITE CONFUSING, BUT I WAS FAIRLY CERTAIN THAT HER TYPE OF THALASSEMIA WAS MODERATE TO SEVERE.  IT TURNED OUT THAT SHE HAS BETA THALASSEMIA MAJOR.  MY OLDER DAUGHTER WAS ADOPTED A YEAR AND A HALF LATER AND I WAS VERY WELL AWARE OF HER SPECIAL NEED, ALSO BETA THALASSEMIA MAJOR.

What does daily life look like for you now? 
DAILY LIFE CONSISTS OF AN ORAL MEDICATION MIXED IN A LIQUID AND BLOOD TRANSFUSIONS (X 2 GIRLS) EVERY 3 WEEKS.

How has it impacted your life?
 MY DAUGHTERS HAVE BEEN A COMPLETE BLESSING IN MY LIFE AND THEIR SPECIAL NEED IS VERY MANAGEABLE.  WE TAKE A HALF DAY TO GO TO THE HOSPITAL EVERY THREE WEEKS FOR A TRANSFUSION AT A LOCAL DAY HOSPITAL.  THE HEMATOLOGIST VISITS US AT THE HOSPITAL.  I USUALLY TAKE MY WORK WITH ME, BUT ALSO TRY TO SPEND SOME QUALITY TIME WITH THE GIRLS.  THE GIRLS MISS SCHOOL ON TRANSFUSIONS DAYS.  DUE TO THE EXCESS IRON FROM THE TRANSFUSED BLOOD, PATIENTS HAVE TO HAVE A CHELATION THERAPY.  MY GIRLS TAKE EXJADE, AN ORAL CHELATION DRUG THAT IS MIXED IN JUICE OR WATER EACH DAY.  TRANSFUSION DEPENDENT THALASSEMIA ALSO REQUIRES A SLIGHT MODIFICATION OF THE DIET (I DON'T FEED MY GIRLS RED MEATS OR IRON FORTIFIED FOODS) AND THEY WILL NEVER PARTICIPATE IN ANY TYPE OF CONTACT SPORTS.   THEY ARE WONDERFUL GIRLS, FULL OF LIFE AND SPUNK.  THEY HAVE TAUGHT ME A LOT ABOUT LIFE AND I AM SO THANKFUL TO HAVE THEM BOTH AS MY DAUGHTERS.

Are there variations of the condition and what are you dealing with in your child?
 THERE ARE MANY VARIATIONS OF THALASSEMIA TO INCLUDE TRAIT (CARRIER), INTERMEDIA, AND MAJOR FORMS OF THE ALPHA OR BETA CHAINS.  MY GIRLS BOTH HAVE BETA THALASSEMIA MAJOR AKA COOLEY'S ANEMIA AND AKA MEDITERRANEAN ANEMIA.

How does insurance coverage work for this condition and the adoption? 
MY GIRLS ARE ON TRICARE (RETIRED COVERAGE) VIA THEIR DAD.  WE DID NOT INCUR ANY COSTS WHEN HE WAS ACTIVE DUTY FOR THE TRANSFUSIONS, BUT NOW PAY $25 PER TRANSFUSION.  WE ALSO PAY A MONTHLY CO-PAY OF $12 FOR THE MEDICATION, EXJADE.   OBVIOUSLY, THESE COSTS DIFFER DEPENDING ON INSURANCE COVERAGE.

What expenses should a family be aware of upfront? 
TRANSFUSIONS CAN BE COSTLY, DEPENDING ON INSURANCE COVERAGE.  SOMONE CONSIDERING A CHILD WITH TRANSFUSION DEPENDENT THALASSEMIA SHOULD RESEARCH THEIR INSURANCE COSTS TO INCLUDE CO-PAYS, DEDUCTIBLES, AND MEDICATION COSTS.  SOME STATES HAVE ADDITIONAL PROGRAMS TO SUPPLEMENT HEALTH INSURANCE AND MEDICATION COSTS.

What state are you in and does it offer additional coverage to this particular special need? 
FLORIDA - I DO NOT KNOW IF FLORIDA OFFERS ANY OTHER COVERAGE.

What else would you like others to know about this condition? 
CHILDREN WITH THIS CONDITION ARE PERFECTLY HEALTHY MOST OF THE TIME.  MY GIRLS CAN BECOME A LITTLE LESS ENERGETIC, IRRITABLE, OR TIRED WHEN IT IS CLOSE TO TRANSFUSION TIME.  THEY DO NOT GET ILL ANY MORE THAN OTHER CHILDREN.  IN FACT, ONE OF MY DAUGHTERS WITH THALASSEMIA IS ALMOST NEVER SICK.  THE INFORMATION ON THE INTERNET REGARDING THALASSEMIA IS QUITE OUTDATED AND TERRIFYING FOR THE PROSPECTIVE PARENT.  THERE ARE MANY REPUTABLE RESOURCES FOR THE PROSPECTIVE PARENT TO INCLUDE AN ADOPTING THALASSEMIA YAHOO GROUP, COOLEY'S ANEMIA FOUNDATION, AND OTHER SUPPORT GROUPS.  I WOULD RECOMMEND ADOPTING ONE OF THESE VERY SPECIAL CHILDREN AND WOULD INVITE THEM TO JOIN OUR YAHOO GROUP AND FACEBOOK GROUP FOR SUPPORT, ADVICE, AND INFORMATION.

Elle, 2008




Levi, 2010

 


Danny, 2005

Are your eyes open yet?

These four will not survive without a family

Brinleigh, 2007




Take a good look at these faces.
Commit them to prayer.
And someone, please, step out in faith
And say YES!!!

My weekly posts will be on a small break because I am going to China this Friday to 
adopt my son!

If I can gain access to an internet and have a moment to spare
I will try to post next week.

Here is my son!!!

Simon, 2007
CHOSEN

~Katie~
hookedonfaith05@gmail.com

Sunday, March 10, 2013

Meet the Sharp Family!

Hey there! It's a rainy day at my house.  What about yours? How's your day going? Are you ready to meet this week's family??
The Sharp family is in the last stages of their adoption of 2 beautiful children from China.  Rowyn, age 3 and Zekiel, age 1!    Tracey, the Mom,  and her friend will travel THIS THURSDAY to meet their 2 newest family members! George, the Dad, will be home with the rest of the family. They don't have a video, but I do have a few pictures to show you.  That's ok, right?  And, you really must take a look at their blog.  The Sharps have adopted before and have a huge heart for adoption and children with special needs.  Rowyn and Zekiel both have dwarfism, as does another son the Sharpes adopted from Ukraine.
So, let's go ahead and get ready to give our dollars to this family as they are making their travel arrangements as we speak.   You can DONATE HERE.  It takes you to their blog page where they are able to fundraise through Reece's Rainbow. There's a big DONATE button on the right side of their blog.  The funds from all of their donations will pay for all of their expenses needed, including airfare and hotels.
Take a look at these cuties and show the Sharp family some love!!
               
             Meet Rowyn....
 And here's Zekiel!
Thanks for giving to this sweet family!! 
Missed the donate button? CLICK HERE to give!




Thursday, March 7, 2013

Women Helping Women

So, I ran across DFC today. They were hosting a 1 day fundraiser for an adoptive family. I started digging around on their site and LOVED it! And I knew you would, too.
You can shop with a purpose and support efforts against human trafficking. They employ women that are trying to reestablish their lives or keep their own children safe.  They have beautiful jewelry and bags, punjammies and purses and lots of other stuff! I'm off to order to support the fundraiser. What should I get??
                            
                                                        
                                                           These punjammies?? Can you tell I love saying that?

One more organization you need to know about and this one's local to me! I just heard of Ekata Designs.  They have jewelry  {buy it on Etsy} made by refugee women who are looking for a way to earn money for their families. They are mainly from Bhutan and Somalia.  Again, if you're going to shop, why not support these women?      

                                                            
I LOVE that these 2 organizations were started by regular women. They just wanted to make a difference and they did.  Don't underestimate yourself and what you are being called to do!

                                              




Wednesday, March 6, 2013

Waiting Well




If you've ever waited for your child to join your family, you know it can be hard to wait well. We want our child home in our arms NOW! As the days turn into weeks and the weeks turn into months, (and sometimes the months turn into years - yikes!) we grow weary and impatient.

Waiting is hard - especially when we turn into a mama-bear (or daddy-bear) and just want our baby home - and we'll take out anyone who stands in our way. The average adoption process takes twenty-eight months. I, personally, only had to wait eleven and I can't fathom the thought of 2 years! But I know God was teaching me something during that wait. I grew so much as a believer, as a wife, and as a mom during that season.

Instead of mulling over the calendar and sulking that your baby (or child) isn't home NOW, choose to wait well. It's a conscious choice. I've compiled a list of 8 things you can do to help you as you wait.

1. PRAY! Spend this time praying for your family, for the child you are adding to your home. Pray that he/she remains safe and healthy during the wait. Spend time reading God's Word and praying for all your children, and especially for the one you're so anxiously waiting for. If you're looking for a great book, Praying the Scriptures for Your Children by Jodie Berdnt was such an encouragement to me in this time.

2. Journal - I kept a journal during my wait for Zoe and now I'm journaling as we wait for Viktors. It's so sweet to go back and read how I was feeling and what I was thinking while my baby was literally on the other side of the planet. I can't wait to share it with them when they're older.

3. Educate Yourself / Read - You need to spend a good amount of time preparing yourself to parent an adopted child. Read some great adoption books on attachment and parenting children from hard places. Some books I'd recommend are The Connected Child by Karyn Purvis, Before You Were Mine by Susan TeBos and Carissa Woodwyk, Parenting the Hurt Child by Gregory Keck, Attaching in Adoption by Deborah Gray, Wounded Children Healing Homes by Jayne Schooler. Your social worker may have others she’d like you to read too. If at all possible, get yourself to an Empowered to Connect Conference during your wait. These events are put on by Show Hope and are truly a gold mine of learning for adoptive and foster parents. I wish we had attended one before Zoe came home, but we attended one in 2012. It was truly incredible. 


4. Prepare Your Home - get that room ready because that child IS coming home. Paint the walls, make some curtains, and fill that closet with clothes (just make sure to buy a size or two up). Hang some pictures of your newest family member in your home, and buy toys with her/him in mind. 


5. Fundraise - I know this one seems so obvious. Most adoptions cost $25,000+ and most of us don't have that sitting in an account just waiting. Have a spaghetti supper in honor of your child, sell cool t-shirts (I think every t-shirt I own is adoption related), have a bake-sale, or a carwash. Pile all that money into an account for your adoption and watch it grow! It really is fun to watch God multiply the efforts like loaves and fishes. As we like to say around here: "God funds what He favors and He certainly favors adoption!" 


6. Serve-  Go love on the babies in your church nursery (it'll give you your baby fix too!), go serve at the local homeless shelter, or at your local school. It'll make you feel so much better to pour yourself out into others and it'll take your mind off all the agonizing days. 


7. Start a Scrapbook or Lifebook - You might not know everything, but you probably have a few pictures of your child and some basic information. Go ahead and get started on that lifebook or a scrapbook for him/her. There's some great books on creating lifebooks available now. 


8. Love your family at home - This one might seem silly to even mention, but it's true. You've been entrusted with the ones that are home with you now. Your husband, your kids already at home (if applicable) and that's where your focus needs to at this time. Don't be so focused on getting that next adopted kiddo home that you forget to love on the ones who are already there. 


I know the wait is hard. I'm waiting right now and I am reminded of how hard it really is to have a child on the other side of the Earth. Be encouraged in this wait. Let your light shine so that others around you see Jesus shining in you as you wait - nobody wants to be around the lady who's always sulking and crying. It's totally okay to have those days where you sit in your bed and eat ice-cream and watch chick-flicks and cry because you miss your kiddo: just don't make that every day. Love those around you well and be intentional with your wait. It's only for a season and then that new awaited one will be home and rocking your world! 


Now that Zoe has been home for a little over two years, it seems like the wait was so fast ; I can assure you it didn't feel that way then. But be encouraged the wait does end; your child will come home. And before you know it, your child has been home over 2 years and you can't even remember her not being there. 


Have a great week everybody - especially those of you who are waiting! 




~Paula